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Horrible Product Experience – So what is the right protocol here again?

I received free sample of night cream promising my eyes to look wrinkle free. I did not ask for a sample, never provided an address where to send it, never made a promise to review it, but happened to get a product sample in an event and tried it. This morning I woke up my eyes tingling and a surprise awaited me when I looked myself in the mirror. My eyes were puffy and red and skin peeling off, like a sunburn (no, it’s not sunburn). I have dry red patches around my eyes and my cheeks, and after washing my face the skin really started hurting, just from water. My skin is in pain, and I do not want to get out of the house looking like this. So tell me.. what is the right protocol here? A. Blog about the product by it’s name and tell my honest opinion and product review. Results: warning other women but giving the company bad PR. B. Let the company know what kind of skin reaction I had. Results: they will know about it, but nobody else will. C. Do nothing. Results: nothing really, we all have bad product experiences all the time, just suck it up. And… I received the product for free as a sample. Would your answer be different if I had spent money and bought the product? A. No difference, it doesn’t matter how you got the product. B. Yes, different, it’s totally different thing, because you didn’t even spend money on it. C. If B, please explain how it is different. I think most bloggers want to do the Right Thing – but what is the Right Thing here? I created a survey and I would appreciate your honest feedback and would love to start a discussion on this subject. Click Here to take the survey. UPDATE: I wanted to add here: I do not share my address with many people, only give it to a very few trusted people, and do not post it on my blog. The company did not send or give it to me personally wanting a review. I received a product in an event for bloggers (so I assume the company might be wanting blog reviews). Awesome comments people – loving the conversation on this!
  1. Before the whole PR thing got big, before I became a “mom with a blog”, I’d blog about a product and I’d bitch about it if it sucked, not to stir up an uproar or to get an apology and a gift card from the company, but just because I felt like it.

    Now, if I get a product that doesn’t work for me – which seldom happens, I’ll give my feedback to the company via email. Why? Because the company was looking for advertising and buzz and I’m not going to give them that if I couldn’t benefit from the product. I wasn’t compensated for my time, so I’m SOL. Call me selfish, but the time spent writing a negative review and “informing my readers” is precious time that I could be spending with my son or paid projects. I just can’t do it all and my focus is on products that do work for my family and me. It’s something I wish I had time for, but right now I don’t and I guess my credibility is crushed due to that.

  2. Great discussion!
    I agree – the survey should also have doing both blogging AND contacting the company. My bad for not making it that way.

    I like that many people like Jill are mentioning that one person’s bad experience doesn’t mean that the product is bad, and I think that’s an important thing here to note.

    While I agree, the Right Thing to do would be contacting the company, getting to know the reason why and what caused the effects, but WHY should I do it? For me? For my reader? For the company? Because it is The Right Thing to do? Am I a bad blogger if I don’t do anything? :)

  3. A few more thoughts:

    1. I took your survey after commenting. I chose “contact the company” but I would most likely blog, too…but both was not an option.

    2. When I agree to receive a product for review on my review blog it is generally because I think I am going to like it. Since I receive dozens of submissions a day in my inbox, I choose to focus on those I believe I will like. Although I will note concerns if I have them, I do not focus on debunking their claims. Sometimes I will compare multiple products in the same category, but that is not the main focus.

    3. I feel no obligation beyond that of being fair and balanced, whether the product was free or not. I do, however, feel a little protective of small, parent-owned businesses. And I prefer in general not to “attack” companies and brands, but I certainly feel free to express concerns I have and use my blog as a way of doing that when I believe it is appropriate.

    4. I do not like when companies send samples without checking. I feel that they are trying to create a sense of obligation where there is none and that sort of manipulation bugs me.
    .-= Candace´s last blog ..The Sling Babies Ask For By Name: UpMama =-.

  4. You can write about it, but just because you had an averse reaction to a product doesn’t mean it’s a bad product per se. Ex: My husband has a reaction to Advil. Doesn’t make Advil a bad product necessarily, it just isn’t the right one for him.

    Letting the company know that this happened may or may not be useful, depends on why it happened.
    .-= Jill´s last blog ..Super Why! A Children’s Show for Smart Kids (and the adults who watch with them). =-.

  5. i think you post about it. it’s that whole blogging with integrity thing, right? the good, the bad the hideous. i reviewed this crappy thing that i can’t remember what it’s called. it is like sandpaper that gets rid of hair…in lieu of shaving. it sucked. and i posted about it.
    i believe in being real. period.

  6. Agree with Susan, definitely write about it but also get company’s reaction. How a company reacts is very important but giving both sides always makes for an interesting read!

  7. Why are you worrying about the night cream review? It sounds like you should see your doctor for an allergic reaction.

    After you have that taken care of, make sure you identify what is bothering your skin. What may be a problem for you could do wonders for someone else. It is also a good idea to contact the company.

    If you don’t believe in a product, don’t endorse it. But unless the product is actually killing people, there is no need to have a witch hunt.
    .-= hillary´s last blog ..Solessence Radio: Upcoming Interviews for August =-.

  8. I think it depends on the nature of the product. I tried a lotion that just didn’t work for me. I chalked that up to personal experience, contacted the company, and didn’t blog about it. The lotion may have worked for someone else, just not me. On the other hand, I tested an item that literally disintegrated after two uses. I did blog that experience. I thought my readers should know about the quality of the item. The company actually responded in my comments (the review was through a third party, and I had no contact info for the original company), and we worked together to figure out what went wrong. I posted a second write-up (linking both reviews to give a full picture), and explained that while the first item fell apart, the replacements the company sent me held up just fine. I was honest and worked with the company (even sent them the defective product so they could do their own analysis).

    So I think you have to decide if you think this is important enough that your readers need to be “warned” about the item. If so, then post it. It can be done tactfully.
    .-= Tiffany´s last blog ..The Old Me Would Not Like The New Me =-.

  9. I agree with Shellie. An item like that, that causes such a severe reaction to you, is definitely a review that most women would want to know about.

    So for me, it would be (A) and (B) to the first question. And to the second, (A).

    PS. Now you definitely have me wondering which product you used that caused that reaction! lol
    .-= Kelly @ Wisdom Begun´s last blog ..Menu Plan Monday =-.

  10. I think it depends.

    First I’d head to the dermatologist. ;)

    Then, I would start by researching a little. Are you just allergic to one of the ingredients? How common is this reaction? Have other people mentioned having it? There are some products that just don’t work for a small number of people but work fabulously for others.

    I would first think about whether or not blogging about which beauty products work or don’t work for me is a fit on my blog and whether it is worth the time and trouble to post about it.

    Armed with whatever I found, I would express my concerns to the company. If I’ve decided to blog about it, I would tell them that and give them an opportunity to respond. For example, I might blog my experience, note whether most others online have or have not found the same thing (linking and crediting if it is a review or a consumer review site or forum), and then include the company’s response about whether the product is suited only for certain skin types. Finally, I would open it up to reader comments about whether or not they had tried this product or found an alternative that works better for them or for people with more sensitive skin.

    Very curious what others say!
    .-= Candace´s last blog ..The Sling Babies Ask For By Name: UpMama =-.

  11. Blog about it all, and by name. It’s what makes blogs so powerful and what makes them trusted sources of info for many. Too many people don’t, which is why I’d never trust a review sponsored by someone like Mom Central who forces positive reviews. They’re primarily lies.

    Hope to read about that cream soon! (Maybe it’s got an acid in it that’s supposed to scuff off dead skin but is too strong or you’re sensitive to it?)
    .-= The Opinionated Parent´s last blog ..Books Rock. Personalized Books Rock Hard. =-.

  12. I would contact the company first to report the bad skin reaction. It’s possible you are allergic to an ingredient, and they may have some suggestions for treatment of the reaction.

    Then, assuming the company is responsive, when/if you decide to blog about it, you can give a balanced report.

    If they are not responsive, that is part of the story too, but you’ve done the fair thing and given them an opportunity to address it upfront.
    .-= Susan Getgood´s last blog ..Integrity: What it means, why it’s important =-.

  13. I think the fact that you didn’t agree to do a product review for this company in the first place changes the dynamics a little.

    You are not obligated to write a review for this company at all in my opinion. But if you do, I think it should be for the benefit of your readers to know about the product and what can happen if they use it. I mean it’s terrible what it did to you.

    P.S. I think it’s kind of wrong that the company sent you their product just assuming you would write a review of it at all good or bad. And I absolutely agree with your other commenter that full disclosure is a must.
    .-= Kristie´s last blog ..Sharpee Review & Giveaway =-.

  14. A. Blog about the product by it’s name and tell honest opinion

    [I’m sick and tired of always going to blogs and only seeing sugar and everything nice – I get angry when PR reps as me not to blog about a product if I’ve had a bad experience. I’m sorry but my readers want to know the truth- good and bad!]

    B. Let the company know what kind of skin reaction

    [Perhaps it was a freak reaction with something else you were using and they have no clue]

    A. No Difference, it doesn’t matter how you got the product

    [Regardless if it was a gift, sample, etc I’d still want to hear about your bad experience. Do you want other moms going through the same pain you are now just because you didn’t buy it or received it as part of a planned review?]
    .-= Alaina Frederick´s last blog ..Outside Fun =-.

  15. After first talking to your DR. or advice line to make sure the reaction doesn’t get worse. I would contact the company to let them know. Their interaction with you, should be an important part of any review you do of the product. Also do a search and see if anyone else has had simular problems. A product bought or even recieved as a sample (requested or not) should be safe and live up to their claims. If this product contains something that causes a reaction such as yours it should state so on the label.

    Hope you face heals quickly, with no permanant damage.
    msm

  16. I’d not write a negative review perse.
    I’d write about what it did to you. There’s not necessarily any need to be terribly scathing but be honest.
    Include pictures maybe.
    It could be a positive thing for the cream manufacturer and you’ll certainly benifit any others who wish to know more about the product.
    .-= Andy´s last blog ..SmartSwipe Revolutionizes Online Shopping =-.

  17. I believe you should blog about a product by name (good, bad, or ugly). That’s the chance companies take by giving away free samples and as long as your experience is truthful and honest it’s not slanderous or spiteful.
    .-= Corrin´s last blog ..Needy Facebook Friends =-.

  18. I couldn’t answer the survey as is.

    I don’t put my address on my blog. If a company wants me to review a product, they need to contact me first. When they do that, I let them know that I do not promise a positive review and that my reviews always include sections on “what I liked” and “what I didn’t like”. If they accept those terms, they can go ahead and send it to me.

    I haven’t accepted to do any paid reviews and am not sure if I would. I’d have to think through it very carefully and would perhaps work out an arrangement whereby I would be paid a certain amount to “test” the product and then another amount to write about it if in fact I liked it. Of course I would be upfront about the fact that I had been paid.

    That said, if I came across a product (e.g. picked up a free sample in the supermarket or purchased a product) and had a horrible experience with it, I wouldn’t hesitate to blog about my bad experience. But I would be fair in doing so.
    .-= Annie @ PhD in Parenting´s last blog ..Breastfeeding: Remove the Booby Traps with Best for Babes =-.

  19. Full disclosure, the good, the bad and the ugly I believe we need to blog about what moves us. If I bought an item, or pulled an item out of a giveaway and did not like it, or it caused harm to me in some way I would blog about it. I would also give the company a heads up since they need to know it happened.

    A. Blog about the product by it’s name and tell my honest opinion and product review.
    Results: warning other women but giving the company bad PR.

    B. Let the company know what kind of skin reaction I had.

    A. No difference, it doesn’t matter how you got the product.
    .-= Shellie´s last blog ..CleatSkins, every soccer mom’s dream – review =-.

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